What is stopping you?
If you want to create the life of your dreams, then you are going to have to take 100% responsibility for your life as well. That means giving up all your excuses, all your victim stories, all the reasons why you can’t and why you haven’t given up unitil now, and all your blaming of outside circumstances. You have to give them up all forever.
Make an effort, not an excuse
Excuses sound the best to a person who is making them up. Making excuses is a self-sabotaging practice that stops us from fulfilling our potential. We make excuses when we don’t find the strength within us to act according to our ambitions and dreams. Excuses are obstacles that we create by ourselves. You said that you would do something. But when the time comes to actually do it. You procrastinate. You have all sorts of good reasons not to do it.
Go for it!
These "good reasons" are simply excuses. I don't care how good they are. They are simply excuses. Be a person of integrity. You said you would do something. You should do it no matter what. Wake up the beast in you. If you want it, go get it. Recognize that excuses are not valid. Building self-discipline is all about putting an end to excuses.
The fruit in your life starts with a challenge. Everything is uphill that’s worthwhile. It’s about taking a responsibility for your behavior and your life. The best time to start was yesterday. New best time is today.